The Biggest Thing Holding the Average Person Back When it Comes to Dating

Only click this if you want the honest truth about why you’re not meeting more people.

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5 Years In The Making: My First Book Is LIVE

The new book from America’s Leading Relationship Blogger, James Michael Sama, will revolutionize dating and relationships.

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5 Ways to Finally Attract The Love You Deserve

“We only accept the love we think we deserve.” – Perks of Being a Wallflower

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Deliberate Dating: 5 Reasons The Best Relationships Are Built On Purpose

If we want our relationships to start lasting, we need to start building a solid foundation for them.

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10 Ways Men Show Their Love Without Speaking

Pay attention to actions over words – words can be dishonest, actions can’t.

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If He Doesn’t Make You Feel Invincible, He’s Not the Man For You

A lot of us have developed a bit of a ‘list’ over the years. A list of qualities we want the person our significant other to have. Maybe we want them to be ambitious, or athletic, or blonde, or tall(ish), or dress a certain way. We develop what we consider to be our ‘type’ over…

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Cheating Isn’t The Problem, Cheating Is The Result of The Problem

I have long since held the position that someone who truly loves and cares for you, will never cheat on you. My personal belief is that cheating should be the end of a relationship – I know there are other writers and speakers out there who may advocate for giving a second chance for whatever…

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Grandparents Give Relationship Advice on 64th Anniversary

To celebrate my grandparents’ 64th wedding anniversary, we got together at my parents’ house (which is an every-Sunday-tradition for us, anyway). After dinner, I sat down with the happy newlyweds and asked my 90 year old grandfather, Silvio, what the secrets were for a happy, long-lasting marriage. His answer: https://www.facebook.com/plugins/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FJamesMSama%2Fvideos%2F1307751329244245%2F&show_text=1&width=560 What have YOU found to…

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The 21st Century Guide to Manhood

As someone who does his best to learn about and write on the topic(s) of what it takes to be a good man in today’s society – both in and out of relationships – I often turn to other publications for knowledge and inspiration. Lately I have been noticing an uprising in clickbait articles from…

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10 Reasons ‘Settling Down’ Doesn’t Mean You’re ‘Settling’

I feel as though there is often an interesting negative stigma towards relationships in the younger generations – my own included. In an age of infinite options bombarding us daily in the form of Facebook posts, Pandora advertisements, and scrolling billboards, we are very seldom satisfied with anything anymore. To make matters worse, we have…

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