An Open Letter to the Guy Kicking His Wife Out for Not Having Sex

Dear man of the internet who searched for “Wife won’t have sex so kicking her ass out” and arrived at this website

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If He Doesn’t Make You Feel Invincible, He’s Not the Man For You

A lot of us have developed a bit of a ‘list’ over the years. A list of qualities we want the person our significant other to have. Maybe we want them to be ambitious, or athletic, or blonde, or tall(ish), or dress a certain way. We develop what we consider to be our ‘type’ over…

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10 Lessons I’ve Learned About What it Means to Be a Real Gentleman

When I first started this website in 2013, I set out on the mission to help empower people to build the confidence they need to stop settling for less than they deserved. I also strove to help redefine the concept of what it means to be a gentleman in our modern era – as it…

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Stop Worrying, Guys. Turns Out Women ARE Open to Being Approached

Men don’t think women are open to being approached anymore, so I asked over 100,000 women for the truth.

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Cheating Isn’t The Problem, Cheating Is The Result of The Problem

I have long since held the position that someone who truly loves and cares for you, will never cheat on you. My personal belief is that cheating should be the end of a relationship – I know there are other writers and speakers out there who may advocate for giving a second chance for whatever…

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You Can’t Have The Fairy Tale, But You Can Have Prince Charming

“Where are all of these gentlemen you talk about all the time?” When I started writing over 4 years ago, my mission was (and still is) to bring back the concept of men being gentlemen – and update what it really means in modern day society. Being respectful, chivalrous, aware, connected (to one’s self, and…

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5 Ways Modern Society is Crushing Romance

Ah, romance. The stuff seemingly only found in history books and black and white movies where men wore three-piece-suits and called women “darling.” An era not without flaws, of course, and it’s easy to see that society has evolved in strides even throughout the past few decades, but it’s arguable that not everything has been an…

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The New School Romance Podcast: Is Chivalry Dead?

In the premiere episode of New School Romance, host James Michael Sama discusses widespread frustrations with the state of dating in today’s day and age. Are chivalry and romance dead? Are they ever coming back? Should we even work to bring them back? And, if so, how do these things look in modern society compared to…

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You’ll Never Be Happy With Someone Until You’re Happy Alone

The internet (and this website)…is home to countless articles, videos, and quotes about being in a happy relationship. Not settling for less than you deserve. Texts to send a guy to make him fall in love with you. Questions to ask women that’ll get them talking to you. Blah, blah, blah. Like much of our…

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If We Want to Build Real Connections, We Have to Express Real Thoughts

I’m going to be a bad millennial by writing this article, but I’m pretty good at being a bad millennial, so I’m cool with it. For the record, if you’re under 35, you’re still classified as a millennial. Sorry, 34 year olds. This is something I’ve been thinking about for awhile now though, and I…

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