Women Have These 15 Needs in a Relationship

There’s a big difference between wants and needs. The “want” is the action that you want your partner to take, or to stop taking. The NEED is the underlying reason WHY you desire this to happen. We define the “want” and then we dig deeper to find the real need that’s being fulfilled by it.…

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32 Behaviors I Notice in High-Status Men

You feel stuck, don’t you? You know that you’re capable of achieving…nay, being so much more than you already are, but you’re just not sure where (or how) to start. You have great ideas, but you can’t get people to listen. You have mountains of love to give, but you can’t seem to attract women.…

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How to Prove That You’re (Actually) Different Than Other Men

The fact of the matter is that actions really do speak louder than words. A woman will never believe you if you tell her you are different than the guys who have disappointed her in the past, you have to show her. And not just once, but consistently over time. Trust is not handed over…

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20 Things You Deserve in Your Love Life

It’s hard to define what you deserve in life and in love. It requires a strong sense of self-worth, high standards, and solid boundaries. Those might be difficult for you to get clear on if you’ve not really dug into your wants, needs, desires, and identity. What is it that you really deserve from a…

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20 Vital Lessons About How Women Think

Imagine, for a moment, the world we would live in if men and women had a deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts, feelings, tendencies, and perspectives. While, of course, the world’s 8 billion people each hold an individual set of traits and personalities, that doesn’t mean we can’t find some common truths that apply on…

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These 15 Conversations Will Decide Your Future as a Couple

I’ve noticed a trend lately in conversations with my private clients, their relationships split apart because they overlooked or ignored red flags or incompatibilities early on in their relationships. I have long made the point that the small things we overlook in the beginning of a relationship are very often the exact things that come…

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Your Relationship Should Meet These 15 Needs

There is a big difference between “wants” and “needs” that often go overlooked when determining what is best for us in a relationship. A ‘want’ is something that, well…we want. There is, however, a deeper and more fundamental need that we are seeking to have filled by that “want.” In other words: The want is…

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The Most Confident People Tell Themselves These 15 Things

Who‘s writing the story of your life? I mean really, honestly, truly…who’s got the pen? Is it you? Or, is it the multitude of voices in your ear every single day from society and the people around you? Are your thoughts, beliefs, and values really yours, or are they simply modified versions of what you’ve…

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15 Defining Traits of Good Men

When I first started writing on here (way) back in 2013, I was focused on these missions: To help men become even better versions of themselves. To help them understand relationships and attraction. To help them gain confidence, and to stop living in the shadows of others. Now, more than a decade, 40 million+ views…

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12 Things You Deserve in Your Relationship

How deeply do you believe that you truly deserve the love, intimacy, and treatment that you desire in a relationship? It’s one thing to want it, but it’s a whole other to really believe that you deserve it. The challenge lies in that no amount of wanting will replace the knowledge of deserving. Only when you understand what you deserve, will you change your…

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