Your 10-Point Guide for Attracting Real Love

If “Finding love” is on your “to-do” list for 2026, then it’s time to take a real look at the ways you can be more efficient with your time and energy…and stop giving it to the wrong people. 1: Get REALLY CLEAR on your wants vs. your needs. These are two different things. What is it…

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Emotionally Mature Men Display These 12 Qualities

Photo: Rachel Sama and James Michael Sama Emotional maturity is the result of life experiences and intentional growth that bring a man on a path of personal evolution. It empowers him to show up in the world (and in his relationships) as the healthiest and most authentic version of himself. The challenge often lies in…

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Spark Conversation With These 35 Creative Questions

No more awkward silences! One of the most common things I hear from clients is that they avoid social interactions, dates, or even dating situations all together because they never know what to talk about. So, in this article I’m going to arm you with 35 conversation-sparking questions to ask the next time you’re stumped.…

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11 Things Women Want To Hear

(Hint: NOT how “hot” she is). What makes for a meaningful compliment? Most men, when complimenting women, resort to remarks about appearance or a victory in the genetic lottery based simply on luck. Women, particularly on social media, hear how beautiful they are all the time. Random men leave compliments on photos, send messages on…

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10 Promises You Make When You Say “I Love You”

3 small words, many big meanings. The many meanings of “I love you.” The word ‘love’ takes on many different forms and meanings. There are casual ‘luv ya’ texts to a friend, the love we share between family members, the love we have for a best friend, and then there is the deep, intimate love we…

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To Love Her Right, Do These 10 Things

Love isn’t just an emotion, it’s a state of being. The points in this article are designed to help you gain a greater understanding of how to express and explore your love for your partner in ways that she feels on a deeper level than ever before. 1: Start fresh. First thing’s first, you’re probably going…

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Men Who Are Ready For Love Do These 9 Things

It’s not about age…it’s about maturity. As we grow through phases of life, priorities change, as does what we feel ready to step into. We all become ready for different things at different times. A serious career, a serious relationship, or maybe even a family. It’s important to understand that there is no “right” or…

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The Most Attractive People Do These 11 Things

Hint: It’s not about your looks. What does it mean to “be attractive?” I’ve always wondered this myself, because it seemed like something that some people just were, while others weren’t. Like it was a gift, magically bestowed upon a few select people who we all were all drawn to as a result. By attractive,…

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9 Simple Things Men Want In A Relationship

He might not tell you, but I will. One of the most frequent comments I get on the countless articles I have about what women want in relationships, is: Hey man, what about what guys want? After 10+ years of writing — primarily about what women want in relationships — I’m no stranger to the frustration of the lack…

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10 Positive Signs They’ll Make A Great Partner

Look for these GREEN flags in your relationship. We spend a lot of time talking about the red flags to look for in a partner or relationship. But, what about all of the positive signs that someone may actually be different from the rest and give you all that you deserve? Isn’t that what we’re…

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