Posts Tagged ‘happiness’
Are You “Nice,” Or Kind? 5 Major Differences
Only one has pure intentions. e’ve all heard the old adage that “nice guys (and gals) finish last.” I’ve been very open about my past as a “nice guy” and all of the challenges that it brought to my life. To overcome these challenges, I didn’t need to stop being good to people, I simply…
Read More10 Things Good Men Never Do In Relationships
Good men live by a code. I recognize that “never” is a strong word. We all have good days and bad days, and it’s easy to slip below the standards of our own expectations at times. However, I believe that good men hold themselves to a standard of conduct in all areas of life — and particularly how…
Read MoreThe Happiest Relationships Share These 10 Qualities
The right person will make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else. Perfection, as we know, is not attainable. One of the reasons why it’s not attainable is that it has a different meaning for everyone. What one person defines as “perfection” could be completely different from another. Perfection doesn’t allow room…
Read More5 Overlooked Qualities Of The Best Romantic Partners
Sometimes it’s the less obvious things that are the most important. I have a great friend who is a very successful businessman. One of the interesting things he always says is that many times, if you want to be successful in business, you should not pursue the glamorous things. Instead, look at the things that people need…
Read More7 Mindsets To Break The Negative Patterns Holding You Back
Many of us hold ourselves back with negative beliefs about ourselves or our abilities. Here’s how to overcome them. How many people do you think are capable of more than they’re currently doing? Odds are, the first person who came to mind reading that was yourself. It’s okay, everyone feels that way now and then. We…
Read MoreHow To Eliminate Negative Self-Talk
The way we speak to ourselves can quite literally shape the reality that we live in. I was talking to someone I’m coaching last week and she told me: “I always date men who are bad for me.” I encouraged her to reframe this thinking to start saying “I used to date men who were…
Read MoreThe 10 Building Blocks of Every Healthy Relationship
Love is NOT all you need. No relationship is ever perfect, but we can strive to find the person who makes us realize why it never worked out with anyone else. Here are 10 foundational building blocks that every healthy relationship shares: 1. Both partners feel fully accepted as they are. What does it mean…
Read More5 Signs You’ve Been Putting Yourself Last For Too Long
You can’t pour water from an empty cup. Many of us are taught that caring for others is a noble trait, and often times we garner a sense of significance or contribution from it. While it is important to be a positive influence in the lives of others, many of us fail to draw a line to…
Read MoreTo Find “The One” You Must First Become “The One”
We don’t attract what we desire, we attract what we project. Dating is difficult. There are a lot of people out there who don’t (or can’t) properly communicate, who aren’t looking for real commitment, or who aren’t even sure what a healthy relationship looks like at this point. Dating apps are frustrating, messages don’t get…
Read MoreHow To Stop Wasting Your Time Dating The Wrong People
When you stop chasing the wrong people, you start giving the right ones the chance to find you. If you feel like you’ve fallen victim to negative dating patterns in the past, rest assured that you’re not alone. I have worked with and spoken to so many people who feel like they’re spinning in circles…
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