Posts Tagged ‘chivalry’
The 15 Real Signs of a Genuine Man
Genuine. A word seemingly reserved in today’s society for objects or artifacts. This is a ‘genuine’ piece. A ‘genuine’ collection. A ‘genuine’ whatever-the-hell. What you do not often hear, though, is how a person is genuine. I read (and listen to) stories on nearly a daily basis that describe the behavior of human beings in ways…
Read MoreThe Single Best Thing a Man Can Do To Attract Mrs. Right
It is no secret that I have strong opinions when it comes to dating and relationships. Some are considered ‘old fashioned,’ and others couldn’t possibly be further from that definition. I have molded my views based on my values and also my experiences. I understand what relationships used to be like, and what they currently…
Read MoreDating: Exhausting, Expensive, and Worth it
My friend nods to me and motions to the bar, “Those girls over there are pretty cute.” We are at a steakhouse in Boston finishing up dinner with some friends. My response: “Alright, let’s go over there.” Fueled by a combination of determination, a bit of pride, and perhaps a hint of alcohol, I suddenly…
Read MoreHere’s Why Men Should Still Pay For Dates
“It’s 2016. Why are men still paying for women on dates?” Alfie Kohn asks in a recent Boston Globe Magazine article. He continues in his 2016 article: “Men paying for meals may have made more sense when fewer women worked outside the home — and those who did faced a bigger gender wage gap —…
Read MoreThe 8-Point Checklist to Identify a “Real Date”
One of the more common discussions I see happening regarding dating and relationships these days, is about the lack of actual dating that seems to be happening. Last minute texts to ‘hang out’ or invitations to ‘grab a drink’ seem to suffice. That being said, there is a time and place for everything. Sometimes the more casual…
Read More10 Sure Signs You’ve Found a Modern Gentleman
It seems difficult to find good people these days, whether you are interested in men or women. And, the older we get, the dating pool seems to turn into more of a puddle. But the truth is, good men and women are still out there – though they may be scarce. I feel as though many times…
Read More10 Easy Ways To Tell If He’s Serious About You
Admittedly, it can be hard to read people these days. Does it matter how long it took to return your text? Did they just give you attitude because they only sent one word, or are they just really busy? Is he really into you, or is he just playing you? And, how can you tell?…
Read More10 Things Your Boyfriend Should NEVER Do
It’s exhausting, really. It’s exhausting to hear stories day in and day out of mistreatment, of disrespect, of downright inexcusable behavior by men while I dedicate much of my time writing about how there really are so many good guys out there. Before I get the backlash, yes, I understand women are far from perfect…
Read MoreShe Doesn’t Need You, But These Qualities Will Make Her Want You
One of the biggest complaints I get these days from women is about men who tend to slowly back away after they realize how strong and independent the woman they are dating is. Now, I am well aware that many women out there confuse being strong with abrasive, and independent with apathetic. Meaning, they take…
Read More10 Qualities that Define a Good Woman
If reading this is your first introduction to my writing, I feel the need to give a disclaimer. I am writing this article because I published a male version quite some time ago, and fair is fair, ladies…I also typically write on equality, love, and respect. That being said – while women are more likely to speak…
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