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As some of you may know, I am currently working with a New York City based agent on a book proposal which will be sent out to large publishers! I am very excited to be on the path to being a published author with a physical book!

However, I do recognize the amount of time an endeavor such as this takes, and I wanted to break into the book space before much more time went by. For that reason, I have put together ‘The Gentleman’s Advantage‘! This e-book is a combination of new thoughts as well as pre-existing articles from this site – some of which you may not have seen before!

There has been much demand for a consolidation of articles in one place, in one document. This book fulfills that request as well as helps to expand the audience these valuable messages reach.

Without further adieu, you can find the e-book for only $3.99 at this link. (Note: Even if you don’t have a Kindle device, you can download the Free Kindle Reading App right on that page also!) Please, if you download and enjoy it, I would greatly appreciate you leaving a positive review on the purchase page!

Thank you all for your amazing ongoing support!


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  1. Valentin Jalba on February 25, 2015 at 7:19 am

    Reblogged this on AM&SM.

  2. michelledancy2014 on February 28, 2015 at 7:42 am

    Awesome James!!!

  3. rebecca on March 12, 2015 at 1:54 pm

    I enjoy your writing but last I checked most books are written by people who are educated in their respective field. For example, someone with zero educational background on abnormal psychology should never publish a book on mental disorders. That could really damage a reader who is using the book as expert advice. I really like your blog and think you have great ideas, but I think writing a formal book based purely on your own thoughts and experiences (though very though provoking!) is a little reckless.

    • James Michael Sama on March 12, 2015 at 2:00 pm

      You are correct! That’s why I’m really glad I would never write a book on mental disorders or something that requires an educational background.

      However, an opinion based book on the way someone thinks dating and relationships should be, in no way falls under that category/ies. So, we are in the clear!

      Thanks so much for your feedback and support of the blog. 🙂 And I thank you in advance for your subsequent support of the book after realizing it is simply a compilation of the same blogs you support, only all in one place – as requested by many readers!

      All the best,

      – James

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