7 Real Reasons Why Men Suddenly Disappear

One of the situations frequently brought to my attention is that men have a bad habit of simply disappearing after a few dates (give or take) with a woman. Naturally, an explanation is always desired and women want to know why this happens so often.

My personal friend Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com has put together a great list of why men just suddenly…disappear.

Check out the video below and click this link to get Adam’s free 4-part dating course.



11 thoughts on “7 Real Reasons Why Men Suddenly Disappear

      1. One per day.. really?!! And what if I think otherwise… Because I do! I love your posts and read them eagerly always when I have time. Whatsoever… one can never satisfy everyone. So, James, here is my unwanted advice: Do it as you feel it and you’ll be never wrong. But I’m pretty sure you already know that! Looking forward for your next postS coming up today!! : )

  1. Ok James, I loved this video but I have a question for you. Ok, now, we have chatted but this is something that has been bugging me. Please keep in mind that I haven’t been in the dating world in 16 years. I come from a time where there is nothing wrong with “going out on a date” with one person, and then going to an event with another person the next week.

    Well, I have had 3 different dates with 3 different people and of there was no intimacy with either of my date(again, come from different time period where it’s in committed relationship..not that I am saying there is anything wrong with it, at all…just my preference).

    Here is my question for you… I recently had lunch with a girlfriend of mine and we were catching up and I told her that I was dating. She instantly called me a SLUT because I had gone on several dates with several people. So, am I a slut for going to dinner with a male single friend one Friday evening and the next week, being invited to a charity event with another gentleman? What say you?

    1. There is no such thing as a ‘slut’. It is a baseless, and ridiculously stupid word made in a patriarchal society. You are not a slut for going on dates.

      You might, however, want to get new girlfriends.

  2. Usually immaturity, bad at awkward situations, but usually because another woman has turned his head. If he comes back out of the blue with a lame excuse, he’s a player.

  3. This is absolutely timely and awesome! High five James, you hit my soft spot. I had this exact situation 2 months ago.. Now I know the answer why he, all of a sudden disappeared… he is a coward and a certified player… Thank you so much for this post.. 🙂

  4. I really needed to see this. I’ve been going through this very situation for awhile now. Thanks for sharing.

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