7 Real Reasons Why Men Suddenly Disappear


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One of the situations frequently brought to my attention is that men have a bad habit of simply disappearing after a few dates (give or take) with a woman. Naturally, an explanation is always desired and women want to know why this happens so often.

My personal friend Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com has put together a great list of why men just suddenly…disappear.

Check out the video below and click this link to get Adam’s free 4-part dating course.



  1. rmquinlivan on August 6, 2014 at 3:44 pm

    Your posts are fantastic, but one per day is probably enough.

    Ryan M. Quinlivan University of St. Thomas Investment Club President

    • James Michael Sama on August 6, 2014 at 3:46 pm

      Thanks for the feedback, Ryan! I will definitely limit it to one per day, maximum, from now on.

      • Sophia on August 20, 2014 at 5:15 am

        One per day.. really?!! And what if I think otherwise… Because I do! I love your posts and read them eagerly always when I have time. Whatsoever… one can never satisfy everyone. So, James, here is my unwanted advice: Do it as you feel it and you’ll be never wrong. But I’m pretty sure you already know that! Looking forward for your next postS coming up today!! : )

  2. Jennifer on August 6, 2014 at 4:13 pm

    Ok James, I loved this video but I have a question for you. Ok, now, we have chatted but this is something that has been bugging me. Please keep in mind that I haven’t been in the dating world in 16 years. I come from a time where there is nothing wrong with “going out on a date” with one person, and then going to an event with another person the next week.

    Well, I have had 3 different dates with 3 different people and of there was no intimacy with either of my date(again, come from different time period where it’s in committed relationship..not that I am saying there is anything wrong with it, at all…just my preference).

    Here is my question for you… I recently had lunch with a girlfriend of mine and we were catching up and I told her that I was dating. She instantly called me a SLUT because I had gone on several dates with several people. So, am I a slut for going to dinner with a male single friend one Friday evening and the next week, being invited to a charity event with another gentleman? What say you?

    • Adeline on August 6, 2014 at 4:46 pm

      There is no such thing as a ‘slut’. It is a baseless, and ridiculously stupid word made in a patriarchal society. You are not a slut for going on dates.

      You might, however, want to get new girlfriends.

      • WildMexicanRose on August 6, 2014 at 7:57 pm

        I second that!!! Maybe the girlfriend is jealous that Jennifer has had several dates with different men. I don’t consider that being a “slut”.

  3. MeAndDating on August 7, 2014 at 8:04 am

    Usually immaturity, bad at awkward situations, but usually because another woman has turned his head. If he comes back out of the blue with a lame excuse, he’s a player.

  4. The Free Woman on August 7, 2014 at 8:19 pm

    just LOVE this!!! Thank you!!!

  5. Maria on August 7, 2014 at 10:16 pm

    This is absolutely timely and awesome! High five James, you hit my soft spot. I had this exact situation 2 months ago.. Now I know the answer why he, all of a sudden disappeared… he is a coward and a certified player… Thank you so much for this post.. 🙂

  6. Jen on August 20, 2014 at 7:47 pm

    I really needed to see this. I’ve been going through this very situation for awhile now. Thanks for sharing.

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