Posts Tagged ‘psychology’
Women Have These 15 Needs in a Relationship
There’s a big difference between wants and needs. The “want” is the action that you want your partner to take, or to stop taking. The NEED is the underlying reason WHY you desire this to happen. We define the “want” and then we dig deeper to find the real need that’s being fulfilled by it.…
Read MoreHere’s What Real Confidence Actually Looks Like
I used to believe that confidence was something simply bestowed on a lucky few upon birth. Some people just had it, while others were left wishing for it. In my mind during this phase of life, I was always in the “other” category. The ones who were passed over in the genetic lottery when confidence…
Read More20 Vital Lessons About How Women Think
Imagine, for a moment, the world we would live in if men and women had a deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts, feelings, tendencies, and perspectives. While, of course, the world’s 8 billion people each hold an individual set of traits and personalities, that doesn’t mean we can’t find some common truths that apply on…
Read MoreHow to Tell if Someone Truly Deserves Your Love
The truth of life and love is that many people along the way will desire you. They’ll desire to be in your presence, desire to get to know you, desire you based on physical attraction, and desire your affection in return. They won’t, all, however…deserve you. Before we dive into this discussion, I need to…
Read MoreThese 15 Conversations Will Decide Your Future as a Couple
I’ve noticed a trend lately in conversations with my private clients, their relationships split apart because they overlooked or ignored red flags or incompatibilities early on in their relationships. I have long made the point that the small things we overlook in the beginning of a relationship are very often the exact things that come…
Read More30 Simple Ways to Become an Amazing Romantic Partner
What does it mean to be a “good partner”? Whether you are a husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, spouse, significant other, or [enter term of choice here], most of the same principles apply. It comes down to the simple things. The ways that we listen, pay attention to detail, remember important things, and make the…
Read MoreThe Most Confident People Tell Themselves These 15 Things
Who‘s writing the story of your life? I mean really, honestly, truly…who’s got the pen? Is it you? Or, is it the multitude of voices in your ear every single day from society and the people around you? Are your thoughts, beliefs, and values really yours, or are they simply modified versions of what you’ve…
Read MoreThese 15 Things Reveal Someone’s TRUE Character
“I’m just getting to know them,” you tell your friends or family as you describe someone’s hobbies, or routines, or career path. You start to spend time around their friends and family, you do a couple of sleepovers, you start getting attached to their dog. For some people in modern society, that’s enough to start…
Read MoreSuccessful and Single: What Men Get Wrong About Dating Strong Women
Do successful men really want to “marry down”? Studies show that the answer is no. Are you worried that you’re overqualified for dating? Many successful women may shy away from, or completely avoid discussing their career on a date because they don’t want to scare away a man who may be intimidated. I hear this…
Read MoreWhat You Do For A Living Doesn’t Define Who You Are As A Person
Times of high unemployment can be dangerous if we equate losing our job with losing our identity. It doesn’t have to be that way. IfI asked you to define who you are right now, what would you say? Many people have told me that they’re a teacher, or a doctor, or an accountant, or a…
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