How To Overcome The 10 Biggest Reasons Relationships End

Your love life is not a statistic. When two people come together to form a new relationship, there are a myriad of circumstances to consider. You each bring to the table a different background, worldview, set of values, and perspective. You also each bring your own past experiences and the assumptions that come along with…

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3 Reasons You Keep Falling For The Wrong People

(And, how to stop it). Someone I coached once told me that he identified as a “people pleaser,” and these tendencies made their way into his relationships. What he would do is essentially mold himself to whatever he thought the woman he was dating at the time, wanted. To his surprise and dismay, this usually…

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The 9 Most Annoying Things About Dating In 2021

Ghosting, breadcrumbing, and love bombing — oh my! Aside from all of the cheesy lingo that has been assigned to dating trends and habits, the actual process itself feels more like a black hole than an open field of possibilities. As I tell my clients, though, it’s all about perspective. If you can recognize the…

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The Happiest Relationships Share These 10 Qualities

The right person will make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else. Perfection, as we know, is not attainable. One of the reasons why it’s not attainable is that it has a different meaning for everyone. What one person defines as “perfection” could be completely different from another. Perfection doesn’t allow room…

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If You Want Your Relationship To Last, Do These 10 Things

The effort doesn’t end after commitment, that’s when it begins. Who even has the time? You mutter to yourself as you read an endless stream of headlines online about romance, dating, chivalry, courtship…many of which, probably written by me over the years. Whoopsie. Different types of advice applies to different people in different stages of…

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If She Has These 5 Traits, Don’t Let Her Go

Never take a good woman for granted. We can run through countless lists of qualities that men or women want in a potential long-term partner (oh…and we have), but the fact of the matter is that everyone is looking for something different. As my grandmother used to say — “There’s an ass for every seat.” That being…

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Single? 5 Things You Must Do Before Your Next Relationship

Make sure you’ve got a clean slate. You’ve faced heartbreak — we’ve all been there. Maybe it was recent, or maybe it’s been awhile since you’ve gotten back out there. Either way, one thing is for certain… You’re wondering why the next time will be any different than the last, especially if you’ve faced a string of…

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Build Bulletproof Self-Worth With These 5 Proven Mindset Strategies

The belief that you are worthy of love and happiness is something you have the power to choose. Think about all of the things in life that are affected by your sense of self worth. The people you date. The jobs you accept. The risks you take. The friends you surround yourself with. The treatment…

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5 Behaviors Mentally Strong People Don’t Tolerate

You can’t control how people act, but you can control what you accept from them. Every single day we’re faced with an internal question that we don’t often define to ourselves. Yet, it dictates the quality of almost every area of life. Our relationships, our careers, our friendships, our family life… The question is: What behaviors…

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15 Ways To Make Your Relationship Last

Just because our attention spans are getting shorter, doesn’t mean our relationships have to. We spend a lot of time talking about how to recognize a toxic person or a toxic relationship, but it’s also important to acknowledge what the right relationships look like, and how, when you’re in one, you can make it last. Here are…

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