The 9 Most Annoying Things About Dating In 2021

Ghosting, breadcrumbing, and love bombing — oh my! Aside from all of the cheesy lingo that has been assigned to dating trends and habits, the actual process itself feels more like a black hole than an open field of possibilities. As I tell my clients, though, it’s all about perspective. If you can recognize the…

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The Happiest Relationships Share These 10 Qualities

The right person will make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else. Perfection, as we know, is not attainable. One of the reasons why it’s not attainable is that it has a different meaning for everyone. What one person defines as “perfection” could be completely different from another. Perfection doesn’t allow room…

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If You Want Your Relationship To Last, Do These 10 Things

The effort doesn’t end after commitment, that’s when it begins. Who even has the time? You mutter to yourself as you read an endless stream of headlines online about romance, dating, chivalry, courtship…many of which, probably written by me over the years. Whoopsie. Different types of advice applies to different people in different stages of…

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If She Has These 5 Traits, Don’t Let Her Go

Never take a good woman for granted. We can run through countless lists of qualities that men or women want in a potential long-term partner (oh…and we have), but the fact of the matter is that everyone is looking for something different. As my grandmother used to say — “There’s an ass for every seat.” That being…

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Single? 5 Things You Must Do Before Your Next Relationship

Make sure you’ve got a clean slate. You’ve faced heartbreak — we’ve all been there. Maybe it was recent, or maybe it’s been awhile since you’ve gotten back out there. Either way, one thing is for certain… You’re wondering why the next time will be any different than the last, especially if you’ve faced a string of…

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15 Lessons About Love Taught By Experience

There are some lessons we can only learn over time…(or, by reading about them). The gift of time comes along with gifts of its own, including valuable lessons in life and love that we learn through experience. Self love, intimate love, family love, friendship love — love is a cornerstone of living a fulfilling life, but pursuing…

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5 Things You Need To Change To Find Real Love

If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always gotten. Come on inside, let’s ruffle some feathers today. Before you get too wound up over the title, I’m not here to suggest that you begin changing fundamental pieces of your identity or personality in order to attract a mate. In…

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The Top 5 Reasons Why He Ghosted You

Have you ever felt like everything was going great, but then, *POOF*? Here’s what might’ve happened. If you’ve ever dated over the past few years, you know how things go sometimes: Meet on a dating app or through a friend, start talking and feverishly exchanging texts. Video chat a couple of times. Start getting really…

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10 Essential Life Skills Every Modern Man Needs

“Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.” — Albert Einstein What does it mean to be a man of “value,” as Einstein once put it? The answers to this question have evolved over the generations as the role(s) of men in society have changed and altered due…

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5 Behaviors Mentally Strong People Don’t Tolerate

You can’t control how people act, but you can control what you accept from them. Every single day we’re faced with an internal question that we don’t often define to ourselves. Yet, it dictates the quality of almost every area of life. Our relationships, our careers, our friendships, our family life… The question is: What behaviors…

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