10 Lessons I’ve Learned About What it Means to Be a Real Gentleman

When I first started this website in 2013, I set out on the mission to help empower people to build the confidence they need to stop settling for less than they deserved. I also strove to help redefine the concept of what it means to be a gentleman in our modern era – as it…

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Stop Worrying, Guys. Turns Out Women ARE Open to Being Approached

Men don’t think women are open to being approached anymore, so I asked over 100,000 women for the truth.

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Cheating Isn’t The Problem, Cheating Is The Result of The Problem

I have long since held the position that someone who truly loves and cares for you, will never cheat on you. My personal belief is that cheating should be the end of a relationship – I know there are other writers and speakers out there who may advocate for giving a second chance for whatever…

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Why More Men Should Be “Just Friends” With Women

“Wait, aren’t you the guy who says that men and women can’t be ‘just friends’?” Yep, that’s me. I have long held the (accurate) position that men and women are unable to be 100% platonic friends because a man’s biological programming will always bring thoughts into his head that escalate beyond friendship. Women are able to…

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The Honest Reasons Why Nobody Wants to Get Married Anymore

Men and women won’t be happy until we start seeing each other as teammates again.

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5 Ways To Define What You (Really) Want in a Relationship

Relationships are perhaps our most valuable asset in life, besides time. And while there are many different types of relationships, the person we choose to commit ourselves to intimately, may be the most important decision you can make. While I’ve always said that the most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself, your significant other…

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A Society Built on Fads and Shortcuts Will Never Value Longevity

I am a big fan of social media. Without it, I’d have missed out on many transformative relationships, experiences, and opportunities throughout my life. I’m sure many of you can relate. But since nothing is perfect, there are parts of social media and the general direction of modern society that makes me cringe just a…

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New School Romance Podcast – Making Love Great Again

Have romance and courtship and chivalry been squashed by promoting equality between the genders? Of course we should all be treated with equal respect, but when does it start to blur the lines of gender roles in dating? Do gender roles actually make dating *better?* You do not want to miss this conversation. In this…

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The New School Romance Podcast: Is Chivalry Dead?

In the premiere episode of New School Romance, host James Michael Sama discusses widespread frustrations with the state of dating in today’s day and age. Are chivalry and romance dead? Are they ever coming back? Should we even work to bring them back? And, if so, how do these things look in modern society compared to…

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You’ll Never Be Happy With Someone Until You’re Happy Alone

The internet (and this website)…is home to countless articles, videos, and quotes about being in a happy relationship. Not settling for less than you deserve. Texts to send a guy to make him fall in love with you. Questions to ask women that’ll get them talking to you. Blah, blah, blah. Like much of our…

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