Posts Tagged ‘confident’
Here’s why “just be yourself” is terrible advice
Listen, I know you’re a good person. I know that you have wants, needs, desires, fears, dreams, deep emotional experiences, and a variety of life experiences every day. I also know that your friends and family care a lot about you. They want the best for you and they want to see you happy. Here’s…
Read MoreThe real reason so many successful people are unhappy, and what to do about it
What does ‘success’ mean to you? If you live in America, odds are that the success you’ve been shown over the years revolves around the “what” you can obtain. The cars, the houses, the clothes – those things are what you should strive for in order to live a happy life. In school we learn…
Read More5 ways to be the person everyone wants to meet at any event
The phrase ‘it’s not what you know, it’s who you know’ has been around for decades, and in many ways still rings true today. This is especially true when seeking a job, opportunity, or even a romantic partner. But in the age of networking transforming into social networking and adding an online component, there is…
Read More10 Lessons Every Man Needs to Learn to Attract Mrs. Right
There is a lot of confusion in the dating world these days surrounding what women want, how men are ‘supposed’ to act, or even what kind(s) of men actually attract women. In the long run, though, it is always a man who is confident and secure in HIMSELF that wins the day, regardless of his…
Read MoreThe real reason ‘pickup artists’ ultimately failed, and what men should do instead
I still talk to people these days who were never aware of the huge pickup artist movement that existed about 10 years ago. Allow me to give you a very brief history: A few guys out of Los Angeles developed a system designed to help men (any kind of many from any walk of life)…
Read More4 Useful Tips to Overcome Your Fear of Public Speaking
Did you know that the name for a fear of public speaking is “glossophobia”? Yes – it’s a very real thing, and if you experience it, you are among an estimated 75% of (all) people who share this anxiety. Whether you need to give a presentation in front of a board room, or speak in…
Read More7 keys of confidence that will get you through any door
Just weeks after moving to Hollywood, California, I had people who’d been living there for years consistently reaching out to me to find out what the hottest event was that night, and asking how I’d seen more in a few weeks than they’d seen in a few years. The answer was pretty simple: I just…
Read MoreYour 5 Step Guide to Achieving Happiness in Your Life
As someone who coaches driven, ambitious people on how to perform better in life and in love, it is not my job to tell them what to do, as common perception might lead you to conclude. Any good coach’s responsibility is to guide. To ask the right questions, and help YOU find the answer. A…
Read MoreOn The Nakedness of Our Mortality
This was originally a post on my Instagram page, but the comments were so overwhelming that I wanted to share it here on this blog. On the nakedness of mortality. A year and a half ago, my grandfather passed at 90 years old. Since he was living with my parents, I would visit often and…
Read MoreThe Untapped Potential of The Good Man
Since the dawn of man, there has always been the epic battle of good and evil told in stories through the generations. Men who fight for power – heroes and villains, angels and demons. Figures we use to represent the flawed nature of humanity that sways in one of the two directions – moral or…
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