Posts Tagged ‘building confidence’

10 Ways to Stop Being the Nice Guy who Finishes Last

It’s not the “nice guy” who finishes last. It’s the pushover. Back at the dawn of time, men began using the excuse that “nice guys finish last” to convince themselves that they weren’t responsible for their own dating failures. I know this, because I was one of them. I did everything I thought women (girls,…

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How To Eliminate Negative Self-Talk

The way we speak to ourselves can quite literally shape the reality that we live in. I was talking to someone I’m coaching last week and she told me: “I always date men who are bad for me.” I encouraged her to reframe this thinking to start saying “I used to date men who were…

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5 Ways To Smash The “All Men Are The Same” Stereotype

You’re not obligated to fit into the mold. Here’s how to smash it to pieces. As men, we constantly fight the stigma that we lack empathy, compassion, and the ability to communicate about anything besides sports or beer. Every day, you have the opportunity to show up in the world in a way that smashes…

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To Find “The One” You Must First Become “The One”

We don’t attract what we desire, we attract what we project. Dating is difficult. There are a lot of people out there who don’t (or can’t) properly communicate, who aren’t looking for real commitment, or who aren’t even sure what a healthy relationship looks like at this point. Dating apps are frustrating, messages don’t get…

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We Can’t Be Honest With Others Until We’re Honest With Ourselves

If we avoid the important questions we’ll never discover the important answers. I recently posed a question on my Facebook page: What is a non-negotiable dealbreaker for you when it comes to a relationship? The answers, while varied, largely gravitated towards one simple concept: Honesty. Being honest with our loved ones should be one of…

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5 Proven Methods For Building True Self Love

Confidence is something that can be deliberately built over time by doing the “inner work.” Here are a few strategies for accomplishing it. Growing up I used to look at people who had a high level of confidence and feel a sense of jealousy. Why wasn’t I given that gift of confidence? As I got older and dove into…

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Get Your Free Book: Men Love Confident Women

Hey all – as some of you may remember from previous articles I have discussed material from a friend of mine, Adam LoDolce, who runs a website called SexyConfidence.com. Adam has recently published his newest book called “Men Love Confident Women” and is giving away 1,000 copies for free. I read through the book and…

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Why You Should Stop Letting Yesterday’s Pain Steal Today’s Happiness

If you are reading this, I would venture a guess to say that you have been hurt at some point in the past. It may have been a relationship that ended, a loved one or pet who was lost, or any other emotionally challenging experience in your life that you are the only person on…

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8 Steps To Becoming The Best Version Of Yourself

For those of us who have set our sights on success, whatever our personal definition of that may be, there is one common thread we all share: The need and desire to keep improving in order to become the type of person who is capable of reaching these goals. While there are multiple avenues to…

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