The Psychological Reason You Get Bored In Relationships

Think about a time when you first accomplished a goal, got that thing you were saving for, or met the love of your life. Feel the euphoria and excitement that overwhelmed you at the time. Now, think about how you feel in the present moment. Hopefully you are still in love with your partner, still…

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Why Liking Someone Is More Important Than Loving Them

All you need is love. Love is the answer. Love is all you need. Love makes the world go ’round. But does it, really? Love is an incredibly important part of any relationship, whether it be family, friends, or significant others. Love is seen as the cornerstone, the very binding fiber that brings and keeps…

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Making The Natural Unnatural – How Abstinence Can Hurt People

Sex. Sex sex sex. Just the word makes a lot of people uncomfortable. There are a lot of possible reasons behind this, one of which I think is a lack of education on the topic in this country. Something at the very core of our being as animals has become taboo to speak about, even…

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5 Truths Behind What Women Really Want

If you browse social media sites like Facebook and eavesdrop on the comment section of pages that post articles related to dating and relationships, you will find an overwhelming amount of jaded men (and women) leaving comments about how all women typically want is, and I quote: “Money, orgasms and to laugh. But they will…

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We Are Equal, But Not The Same

Recently, I’ve been getting a lot of heat in the comments on certain blog posts about how I am “sexist” in my “generalizations.” Sexist? Have you read my articles? I would think my constant push for fairness, mutual respect, and equality, is the furthest thing from sexist. But, this does raise an interesting point. Why…

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5 Things Men Need To Learn About Women

Sure, we have all met some women who seem to be more complicated than Chinese algebra. Even the famous Oscar Wilde remarked: Women are meant to be loved, not understood. But, I do think that as men, we over-complicate women because we expect them to be just like us. It’s natural for anyone to project…

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Sam Harris – Death and the Present Moment (Video)

Death is perhaps the most depressing, avoided topic that any of could think of to discuss. In fact, of the hours of Sam Harris talks I’ve listened to, I admit I stayed away from this one for quite awhile, due to the title. However I’m glad I finally took the plunge – you’ll (hopefully, as…

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My path to Secular Humanism.

It’s a well-written post–a typical example of “conversion” from religion, but nonetheless one I’m happy to have read about. – Richard Dawkins, Evolutionary Biologist. http://www.RichardDawkins.net Hi, my name is James, and I’m a Secular Humanist. I’m also a regular person, just like you. (Cue: Hi, James!) Humanism is a progressive philosophy of life that, without…

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