Archive for March 2015
5 Damaging Mindsets Keeping You From Happiness
As I close in on the two year anniversary of starting this website, I have had countless conversations with people who are in all phases of life. Men, women, boys, girls, single, married, divorced, and everything in between. When you really stop to listen and pay attention, there are many lessons to be taken away…
Read More7 Life Lessons We Can Learn From Children
When each of us come into the world – we are a blank slate. We have the amazing ability to be formed and molded by our surroundings and the people who influence us in the most important of times. As we get older, we fall into routines and ways of thinking that may seem set…
Read More10 Ways A Man Knows He’s Ready For Commitment
As a 30 year old man, I am old enough to be past the phase of scouring my contact list at 1:50am looking for an afterparty, and still young enough to remember what it was like. I am still aware of what changed in my life and my thought process that made me realize that…
Read More7 Reasons Being Kindhearted Is A Strength
In today’s society, it often seems as though being cold towards others is seen as being “strong,” and showing feelings and emotions is equivalent to being “weak,” especially for men. But, I do often receive comments from women telling me how ‘nice girls’ finish last just as often as nice guys do. People say if…
Read More10 Stereotypes To Stop Spreading About Women
There are many generalizations and stereotypes about women which I come across frequently. I find the higher the standards that a woman holds for herself and those she allows into her life, the less she fits the molds we are about to discuss. So, what are “all women” not…? _________________________________________________ Not all women are overly emotional. While it…
Read More10 Signs He’s A Keeper
It is not often that I publish guest posts on my blog, but Chrystal Rose, one of my friends over at TheIndieChicks.com, just came out with a killer article on how to know if the man you’re with is a keeper. Chrystal, the President and COO of The Indie Chicks is engaged and in a great…
Read MoreWhy You Should Date A Woman Who Balances You Out
Life is about balance. A balance between work and social life. A balance between saving money and enjoying yourself. A balance between eating healthy and having that extra slice of pizza. And, a balance between partners in a relationship. I feel as though many times, we hear that ‘opposites attract.’ Either that or we talk…
Read More11 Warning Signs You’re Dating A Toxic Person
While it is of course important to set our standards and understand within ourselves what we want when in a potential teammate, it is equally as important to understand what we don’t want. Part of defining what we don’t want in a partner is knowing what kinds of people are going to make us happy and what…
Read MoreThis Is What The ‘Perfect Relationship’ Really Looks Like
When a lot of people read my articles, they often comment with how the standards I set for people and relationships are unrealistic. I have mentioned this before, because it is prevalent. I think the ideas of a solid, happy, healthy relationship – and the idea of a ‘perfect’ relationship, often become misconstrued. I have…
Read More10 Reasons Men Should Stop Avoiding Commitment
First thing’s first: Before I get all of the hate mail from guys telling me that sometimes women avoid commitment too, let me say that there is a specific reason I am writing this article: I receive message after message after message (after message)…from women, who want to know why it seems like there are no men…
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