Whether you have seen me discussing chivalry and romance on CafeMom’s MadLife talk show, the “state of the date” on Fox News, or have come across any of the other media features about the New Chivalry Movement, you are one of over 32 million people who have visited this website and, hopefully, have been touched by the messages it stands for.
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But don’t just take my word for it – below, you will find direct quotes from people who have been affected by my articles or direct advice.
Looking forward to helping you build a lifetime of happiness.
– James M. Sama
I first reached to James for consulting way back in the spring of 2009. We met up in the city and sat down to go over all the areas of my life that I had wanted to get handled. James helped me eliminate a vast majority of them and in the five years since those problem areas have yet to return. It’s amazing how much fear and worry throughout most of my life were turned into self-confidence and assertiveness. I walked away no longer afraid of what people thought, or what my critics had to say. I learned how to define and project myself. I have a few close friends who I used to complain about my sticking points prior to James. I feel to this day they are still shocked and find it hard to believe that I no longer have had them since meeting up with James. It’s important to be a re-assured person. – Mark A., Boston
While obtaining counseling after leaving my abusive marriage, the counselor referred to a blog, JamesMSama com. After reading the daily articles, I’ve come to understand that not every man is abusive and. I DESERVE better! I cannot thank James enough for saving me from a lifetime of abuse! – Jennifer T., Texas
Where do I start? I had a rocky break-up with my ex.. almost lasting as long as the amount of time that we had dated for. James gave me honest advice and helped me realize what I deserve, which was not wasting any more time on this jerk of a guy. James has a great understanding of relationships in our current generation, and outside of all of the dating apps and social media junk, James taught me that it really comes to finding someone who loves and respects you just as much as you love and respect yourself. – Allie W., Boston.
Before I found the New Chivalry Movement and James M. Sama, I often wondered if dating in today’s society was a lost cause. The men I encountered seemed to be clueless on what it means to be a gentleman and how to truly connect in a relationship. Then I met a diamond in the rough; he was already a gentleman, but needed some polishing in the connection department. I introduced him to the New Chivalry Movement on a whim, and in just a few days (and several articles later), I could see a big difference. We now share articles with each other and our conversations often revolve around the topics of those articles. We are growing together and developing our connection, thanks to James M. Sama! – Courtney K., Florida
When I discovered James’ blog around the beginning of the year it intrigued me. Now, months later, it’s the one item I read daily, like my online newspaper. I’ve been single for a long time and refuse to lower my standards of how I should be treated or of how a lady should also act in a relationship. I know my value, and James has helped to reinforce that. I’ve been called picky, I’ve been told to lower my standards to get “any man,” but I shall not. I’d rather be single and content being alone than settling. – Shauna J., Georgia
The new chivalry movement is one of the best dating advice websites I have ever seen! It’s a life line and a total comfort to me and I go back to it on a regular basis as a reference as I know it makes so much sense! When ever any of my friends are having man troubles, I know there will be an article by James which I can send over to them! – Stephanie C., Bristol, United Kingdom
Whenever I feel like reaching out to my ex, I look at your page instead. There I always find an empowering quote…Something that makes me remember I don’t need him and I can move on and find someone who truly deserves my love. Thanks for helping me stay strong and move on. Please keep doing what you’re doing. – Elena D., Boston
Are you ready to be empowered? Let’s get started.
– James Michael Sama