5 Things Making Women Less LadyLike

I’ve been challenged. Each article I write about how men should act, I am challenged by those who call it “wildly sexist” and tell me that I would be obliterated by society if I were to write something similar about women.

Challenge accepted.

As a man, I write from the male perspective. This is why I typically write how I feel that men should act, because they are standards that I have chosen to hold myself to. But of course, I am equally aware that the modern-day female is much different than those in the past and some men question if they are “worthy” of the respect and chivalrous acts which I encourage.

I feel that every person should be respected as a human being, but certain popular trends make me curious about how our future generations will be raised.

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They call themselves a “bad bitch.”

I can’t stand this term. I even hate writing it. Worse, I hate women referring to themselves in this way. Why does anyone actually want to be a bitch, let alone a “bad bitch?” If the girls of our generation think that this makes them sound more authoritative and respectable, well, it doesn’t.

A true gentleman will choose a good woman over a bad bitch, any day.

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They have truck driver mouth.

Sure, when you’re in the comfort of your own home or around friends, the gloves come off in terms of language (though there are still some words I’d never say), but when typing tweets or status updates, even I get taken aback by some of the words that girls use these days.

The irony of it is that I was raised to do my best not to swear around women, and now they do it more than I do.

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They talk about fighting other girls (and do it).

What? When did women become the new high school boys? With so much talk about drama and fights at clubs all over Facebook, if I blocked out the person’s name I probably couldn’t tell if the post was coming from a guy or a girl.

Keep it classy, ladies – no need to fight.

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All they want to do is get “TURNT UP!”

First of all, what are you turning up? Secondly, is “turned” so hard to type?

A well-rounded lady is attractive to a man who wants something serious – not someone who just wants to party multiple times a week. By all means, have your fun, we’ve all been there! But don’t complain about not being able to find a steady boyfriend.

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They pay more attention to their appearance than their attitude.

Class is not a matter of style. It is not a matter of the price tag on your outfit. Class is in how you carry yourself, how you present yourself, and how you treat other people. One cannot be considered “classy” simply due to how they dress – it’s a matter of what you exude from within. Man or woman.

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As a man encouraging the New Chivalry Movement, I would be doing a disservice if I ignored the fact that a gentleman looks for a lady. Men with dreams, goals, and ambition will look for women who have the same, to be their teammate in life. To walk the journey together, side by side.

Maybe, just maybe, if more women would act like ladies, more guys would stand up and be gentlemen.

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220 thoughts on “5 Things Making Women Less LadyLike

  1. Bitch what the hell. “A truck driver mouth” isn’t lady like?? Well fuck being lady like! I don’t need to be told how to act because of my gender. I’m a fucking bad bitch and I’ll swear if I want too. If men find it ugly, fuck them, I don’t need them and their 4 inch dick.

  2. Most women these days are just down right horrible creatures altogether.

    • Agreed. Feminist “values” these days are contradictory of everything that makes us “feminine”. This is coming from a woman myself, I do think that women have come a long way from the days when we used to be “socially inferior” to men, but now it just seems like women are consistently emasculating and degrading men as if we forgot what feminism was actually all about- equality for all genders. Both men and women should be respected. The way people treat each other these days is abysmal.

      • I am a feminist, or more accurately, a humanist. I believe in choice, and equality, for every human being. I also happen to love men.

        Please don’t generalize about women who are trying to balance an unstable equation. Or the men who love us. I’m your sister, your mom, your daughter, your lover, your best friend.

        I don’t insult people’s background. No one has the right to insult my gender. Call me a b or a c, and I’ll write you off the same way if you insulted my race, religion or disability. It’s trash talk, and I don’t talk to trash.

        This is what I know. Every day I see women feeding the local junkie, donating clothing, baking for the religious center sale, and visiting people in hospitals. I see people visiting seniors, attending self help groups, and volunteering in the community. I see those so-called no account young people lining up here in Canada to donate blood for free.

        It takes a while, but when we look around our own neighbourhoods we see that respect, common courtesy, and decency are, in fact, everywhere. Perhaps not to be expected, but as perennial as the grass.

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