10 Ways A Good Woman Will Make You A Better Man

As men, we’ve all been there. The relationshits where the girl you’re dating brings more drama than happiness to your life. Where her immaturity and jealousy stresses you out. Where you question if being a relationship is even something you want.

I do believe, though, that a good woman will bring many positives to your life.


A good woman will support you in all of your ventures. She will be your cheerleader and encourage you to chase after your goals and dreams.

A good woman will make you excited to come home at night. She will be your encouragement after bad days and the first one to congratulate you after good days.

Either way, she will be your reward after all days.


A good woman will make you want to be the best version of yourself, just by being present in your life. You will always want to be more and do more, both for her and for yourself.

A good woman will make you excited for each day to begin. Knowing you have the love of the one you love will give you a new outlook on life.

A good woman will never judge you. She will accept you as you are, giving you more confidence in yourself.


A good woman will teach you about life. The female perspective on the world is completely different than a man’s, and seeing things in different lights often give you a clearer view.

A good woman will be honest with you, whether you like it or not. While being supportive and encouraging, she’ll also tell you if there’s something you need to change and improve, and who doesn’t want to improve?

A good woman will open your mind to new things. Odds are you’ve got different interests – so embarking on hers with her will bring new experiences into your life that you may not have tried without her.


A good woman will help you see yourself how she sees you, in your best light. She will help you recognize the great things about yourself that she sees, and you may not.

A good woman will keep you grounded. Let’s be honest – there has been more than one occasion when you’ve gone to a female friend for advice on any given topic. To have a good woman be the voice of reason in your daily life, will keep you on the right track.


When you have the love of a good woman supporting you, there will be nothing you can’t accomplish.

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  3. Really enjoyed this article!
    I believe that this article goes both ways, for both sexes. I am currently engaged to my best friend and the love of my life. I will admit two years ago, before I knew what love really was and felt like; I would have dismissed this article all together. However now I feel like this is a very true and well written piece for any relationship, I can support this as follows:
    ‘A good woman will support you in all of your ventures. She will be your cheerleader and encourage you to chase after your goals and dreams.’
    -Very true, my fiancé is the most supportive and encouraging person I have ever met. He encourages me to work hard and reach the goals and an we have set forth for each other.
    ‘A good woman will make you excited to come home at night. She will be your encouragement after bad days and the first one to congratulate you after good days. – Either way, she will be your reward after all days.’
    -I have never been more excited to walk through the door and see one person as I am nearly every day (everyone has bad days, so let’s be realistic here). I have found a new found joy in his smile and his hugs when I arrive home. Also, there is no other person I would rather share and feel rewarded with than him. If something good happens in life I am not only grateful to have him, but also the blesses we receive together.
    ‘A good woman will make you want to be the best version of yourself, just by being present in your life. You will always want to be more and do more, both for her and for yourself.’
    -OK.. OK.. I get it.. you can’t love someone else until you love yourself.. you have to be the best you can be and not rely on anyone else. .. all the clichés in the world wouldn’t make me believe that this isn’t true. I am a better person having met my fiancé and spending my life with him. I want to be the best person I can be for him and for our future family, not that I didn’t want to be the best I could be before him, but there is a new found desire in seeing the pride and love in his eyes when I have accomplished something, be it for myself or for us.
    ‘A good woman will make you excited for each day to begin. Knowing you have the love of the one you love will give you a new outlook on life.’
    -NEVER READ ANYTHING MORE TRUE. Every day is beautiful as it was before I met him, but now.. the sun shines a little bright, the flowers smell a little better, and the bad days just aren’t as bad. Knowing that the person that loves you and that you love more than life is there to help you through anything provides a very keen outlook on life, such a beautiful one!
    ‘A good woman will never judge you. She will accept you as you are, giving you more confidence in yourself.’
    -We are all human and judgment is in our nature. Though I wholeheartedly believe when my fiancé ‘judges’ me, he has my best interest and growth in mind. I believe that he has good intentions when providing feedback and only wants to help me be better or point out a difference of opinion. (God love him, because this is never easy, I am a rather stubborn person).
    A good woman will teach you about life. The female perspective on the world is completely different than a man’s, and seeing things in different lights often give you a clearer view.’
    -I have never learned more in life, I have never been so open to learning and exploring new things, and partaking in things that I never thought I would do. You can learn this is ANY relationship you are in, not just one with a significant other. Everyone has their own story and has been through there own stuff, therefore you should never stop learning from those around you.
    ‘A good woman will be honest with you, whether you like it or not. While being supportive and encouraging, she’ll also tell you if there’s something you need to change and improve, and who doesn’t want to improve?’
    -Oh the hard part, honesty. This is one thing that I was not used to in past relationships but have grown to love and appreciate now. It has been brought to my attention that I in fact am not perfect and have room to grow, who would have known? In the past my partners did not have the respect enough to tell me of these areas I need to improve. Not only do I have that now I also have a support system to help adapt to the changes that need to be address in me and my ability to love others.
    ‘A good woman will open your mind to new things. Odds are you’ve got different interests – so embarking on hers with her will bring new experiences into your life that you may not have tried without her.’
    -Stuck in there ways? Who wants to do the same things for the rest of their life and never try anything new? I love the adventure and spontaneity that my partner has helped me realize I have within me! It a whole need and awesome side of me, that I didn’t even know existed!
    ‘A good woman will help you see yourself how she sees you, in your best light. She will help you recognize the great things about yourself that she sees, and you may not.’
    -I have bad days, and worse days. The best thing in the world is being reminded that the bad and awful times in life aren’t who you are and don’t have to define you. Of course anyone can see this on their own, however it is so much easier when you have someone to help remind you of the things you are and the things you aren’t. It always amazes me the things that others see in you, that you may never see in yourself, especially those that love you.
    ‘A good woman will keep you grounded. Let’s be honest – there has been more than one occasion when you’ve gone to a female friend for advice on any given topic. To have a good woman be the voice of reason in your daily life, will keep you on the right track.’

    -This isn’t just a good woman, this is a good person in general, but for me my rock is my best friend, my fiancé, my hero, my love, my heart, and my future. He reminds me when I get a little out of control that we all put our pants on the same way and that we all walk the same earth. I also know without a doubt that he provides reason when there is doubt in my mind.

    I feel as if articles like this are based on perspective. I by no means would consider myself anything less than a strong women, I have had my share of bad, abusive relationships and a couple good ones throughout as well. Also, like I mentioned before I very well would have dismissed this article two years ago, but then I wasn’t involved in a mature loving relationship. We pride ourselves and our relationship on growth, not only as individuals but also together. There isn’t an obstacle we don’t attack together. I appreciate my ‘good’ man, and know that he appreciates his ‘good’ women as well.

  4. My husband broke up with me a month ago because of the little misunderstanding will had, he was dating other young lady and he never take me out again he was totally changed and he never listen to any thing i told him. one day he came and told me he is bringing in other lady in our home, i was so frustrated so when i came across Dr.airiohuodion (airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com) how he use to rebuild broken home and make their family to reunite together again, so i quickly email him and explain all my problem to him and he guarantee me that my husband will definable want me back after the reunite spell. After everything my husband (SAM) came back to tell me he still love and cherish me that he promise never to cheat on me any more i was so happy and i quickly email Dr.airiohuodion (airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com) and thank him for the wonderful spell, he was God sent and if you need his helping hand contact his direct email at.(airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com).

  5. I am going to be nit picky here. The article was indeed good my issue is with the pictures you choose to accompany it. Due to their past choices Angelina and Brad belong NOWHERE near anything you write. Though they take stunning pictures I do not think there is an ounce of chivalry, class or honor in either of their bodies.

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  13. Well it would certainly give us much more confidence, make us very happy knowing we have someone to share our life with instead of being Alone and having no one. Especially if you can be very compatible together.

  14. I met my husband in my first year of senior high. Its not like i met met him during my first year of being senior , it was more like we started dating during that period in time. It was the first time in my life i felt like my heart was going to explode when anyone touched me or kissed me. I knew i was in love with him and there was no way of saying that i wasn’t and i also believed that he loved me just as much as i loved him. In more sense i could mistake what we felt as something magical. We planned our lives together thinking and knowing we are going to be together forever and nothing was ever going to tear us apart. But life being as it is, we woke up and reality set in. Although this month made it the 9th year since we have being together, last year was brought us series of problems. Professionally, i am a medical doctor and he is an art painter so there is no way on earth i will always be around because its the nature of my profession. I always made sure i spend most of my free time with him and not friends. As much as i love him, i also love saving lives so it was so selfish to ask me to choose. I will never ask him to choose between me and his art work because i knew how much he loved painting and how much he loved me also. O well that is all history just wanted you all know what caused our problem. I can go on and on telling how selfish he was towards me and my profession but it will be pointless. In the end i found out he was seeing someone else even if we were still married. I only knew about three months after they started their affair. And his reason for cheating was that he needs closure that i made sure i gave each time i was home with him. All that needing of closure speech could also be rephrased as he was tired of us and needed someone new after eight years of been together. I wish i told him he was never going to see me again but it was the opposite he ended us there and then. Call me crazy or whatever, i knew in my heart that if i had let him go like that i would never had found love again. A spell caster called Metodo Acamu help me cast a spell to bring us back together. I know it sounds hypocritical to even mention i used a spell to get back together with my husband because for goodness sake i am a medical doctor and i should know better than that but it true along with every other testimony about Metodo Acamu spell you have all seen on the Internet. Like most of the testimonies you may have read, i never intended on contact a spell caster but desperation drove me to am only glad i contacted the right one. He only asked me to provide four materials that i can not disclose which i was to mail to him through DHL or UPS but i decided to just send the total cost to him Because firstly my job does not permit me the time secondly some of the materials where not even found here in Chicago or the united state as a whole while other did not just go down with me to actually send via mail. But i promise you his spell worked. We are more in love than ever before just like when we first started dating and our relationship is more healthier that it ever was. Its been six months since Metodo Acamu help me get back together with my husband and like i said his month made it our 9th year of being together. I will his email contact here for mailing purpose { metodoacamufortressx[AT]yahoo{DOT}com } note:use this email the way you use yours in the stand email format

  15. I only discovered that my wife, the every woman i love with my life was cheating on me with her boss. This broke my heart in pieces. I knew form the very beginning that her boss was going to bring about the end of my happiness there was something about him that gives him an upper hand when i came to women. He always got what he wanted from any beauty that capture his eye. What wowed me was that my wife, fell for him and decided to put at stake everything we have fought and worked for all those 14 years. I trusted her though i can’t say that our sex life was epic but i can say we were doing alright. I discovered messages in her computer about 8 months ago. I was mad and at the same time sad but i was going to find out how true they where before i ask her or rather before i was going confront her about what i know about sexual relationship with her boss. Unfortunately i was so unlucky and could not dig up any dirt. The affair was perfectly carried out and by all means no trail was left to trace. I could not pay for a private investigator so i decided to confront her myself and ask her about the messages on her computer and like instantly she came out clean but i wished i never asked her because it was like she needed me to see those messages in the first place. My discovery about her affair was like her ticket or rather her way of telling me she no longer was in love with me after 14 years of marriage. She basically left me for her boss. I wished i knew where we went wrong and got bad. Am just gonna go straight to the point because i was not just going let her go like that. She was the first and only girl i had sex with i was not a popular guy in high school she was all i had and loved i was not even in my dreams, let her go without a fight in what ever form. I found a powerful elixir maker called Metodo Acamu Online during a 4 months period she was living with her boss. He is a real and legit and all his techniques actually works just the way they ought to work. If not for Metodo Acamu i would probably be a wasted human by now. He helped me with a make the woman i promised my life time to on the day of our wedding come back to me. It might seem selfish of me to some of you but others who understand what i was in, can tell that just letting her do would be foolish because never again will i find someone like her. All Metodo Acamu asked from me was just materials and nothing else and it was for not reason compulsory for me to give him the money for the materials because, i had options he gave me to get the process done. I could get the materials myself and mail it to him via ups or come down to his holy ground or send down the cost of the materials to him which is less expensive that all other options. And i did just that and it worked will for me. He helped me prepare power elixir and via ups he sent me a package containing harmless materials and instructions on how i was going make the elixir active. I did all he asked me to do in the instructions and everything happened just how i wanted. I got my wife to love just the way i wanted and i loved her just how she wanted. I can literally say my life is perfect because all i need in my life was my family and i had it back with a stronger love bond. Metodo Acamu can be reached with his email address { metodoacamufrotressx at yahoo dot com } note: when contacting him use this email in its right format where all words and character are packed together and at and dot is used in the normal email way.

  16. May be someone out there knows what i am talking about and know how its like to be invisible mostly by the one person you are in love with. I was in love an unhappy married man.His marriage was going to limbo and i was the only one there for him. He only saw me as a friend but he was more than that to me. I wish i had the heart to tell him before the went ahead and got married then, may be he would never had be unhappy and may be we both would have been together. Yeah it turned out i was too much or a chicken. Though we are together now literally because of the spell Metodo Acamu a very powerful spell caster i must say helped me cast to make him love me just as i loved him. A lot of people may have different opinion as to if what is did is wrong or right but really, it do not matter because he was in pain and his life was falling to pieces and i was his friend who was in love with him. I knew he was going to be happy with me and he is now. For the first time in three years i have he really happy i mean he tells me every time how free he feels . We are perfect together and i know we are always going to be like this. This would not be the case if not for the spell Metodo Acamu helped me cast. All that was required of me were just the materials that was going to be used to prepare the spell and note Metodo Acamu does not do spells for money i wish i knew why but i do not. He told me that i should get the materials needed for the spell preparing he told me to get them myself and if i can’t find the materials all i had to do was send the total cost for it so he can help me. It wasn’t easy to get them but i found them but it took a lot form me i would advice against getting them yourself because there are not only hard to but also difficult to mail believe me. I am only writing this short article for those out there with problems similar to the one i had. If you want to contact him use this email its what i used metodoacamufortressx@(yahoo). com rewrite this email in the usual email standard form for use!!!!!

  17. As at this the month last year my life was a mess i lost everything my wife, my job, my house and even my kids it was really bad that i had to go live with my father. First, i lost my job as a result of covering the bad things my best friend committed and there after everything fell to pieces. My family fell apart i fought with my wife always over every little thing i remember we fought over the fact that my credit card was declined a the shopping mall she was well aware of our situation, that is how i lost my job and all that. I think what made her most mad at me, was that i lost my job because i was protecting my friend. Then i started defaulting on my mortgage payment i could not pay up, i could not pay my bills every responsibility in my house was on my wife. She could not do it all alone she need me to be the man of the house and i failed her and my kids. I was ashamed to call myself a man. Then the worst happened, the bank took my house and my family were thrown out. Once again my wife just felt disappointed in me she could no longer take it she had leave me took with her our kids. I became a confused man with nothing to live for. I started drinking and smoking heavily to top it all i had to move in with my father. I had to listen to him all the time telling me how disappointed he was at me. It was like i was blacklisted by every company here in the United State no one wanted to heir me even with my experience and how good i was with what i do it was impossible for me to get a job i had to do odd job to fund myself and move around town. My wife would not even let see my kids she did not want me around them. She thought i was a bad influence on them. But i was given a reason to keep living by a spell caster named Obudun Magonata. He help me get a new job in my own field and helped me get my wife back. I must be honest here i was never a fan or believer of all this kind things that has to do with charms and spell i always thought they were sham. Obudun Magonata showed me the other side of spells the good side of it. I will count myself lucky to have found him and get this ironically, i found his address on the internet by chance. I was not even going through anything related to spell i was looking for jobs and then stumbled on a couple of comment about him and how he help people. I only called him when all my options failed he was my last card and he just clicked. Obudun Magonata cast a Good Luck spell for me and also a Love Spell to get my wife back. Honestly i gave him money to help me get the materials for the spell which he did. He did not ask i pay him for the service rendered. He told me his spell casting gift was free hence he help people for free. He also told me after i get my new job in two months i will be promoted to executive manager and it all happen all what he told me happen. He told me he was going to make my wife come back even when see started seeing another man and that this time she was going to be mine forever through any crisis. My family has never been this happy since Obudun Magonata help me repair my life with his wonderful spell. If any of you reading this want anything in this world that seems impossible to get, i will tell you to contact Obudun Magonata with this email { spiritsofobudunmagonata@ (yahoo). com } off course rewrite this email in the standard form to use i think and i know he is the quickest road that leads to where you find happiness and all the best things in life



    1) WORK ON YOUR SELF When I was with my ex, I was so happy to be with him that I literally put him on a pedestal. I was so concerned with pleasing him that I forgot to make sure he was pleasing me (which I finally did when I told him to get out and grow up). Now that he is back in my life, I’m no longer putting all of his feelings first. It might take two to tango in a relationship, but it also takes two to make it work.

    Eventually, they all (mostly) come back (granted, there are some that are that stupid and may never realize what they missed). It may be an email out of the blue or an unexpected run-in. But the best way to make that happen and make them want you back, is to be the best version of yourself that you can be. Yes, it’s kind of after school special of me to say, but it’s so true. If you treat yourself with the respect you deserve, stay classy and show that you’re worthy of better, it will go a long way in making him take a hard look at what he gave up.

    This is a fact that i know and every woman that will be reading this also know. We will do anything possible to keep or get the one one we love though we might go about it in different ways but what does it matter how we went about it all that matters, is that we get them. My now husband for two years was not always in love with me me he only saw me as this close friend and personal assistance. He was married to a very beautiful nice woman. I always prayed i would get to have a very happy family like the he had with his ex wife. You could fill the love and passion in the air just as you walk into their home. This ought not be be my story to tell but still i will because he is my husband now. After four years of their beautiful marriage, i say beautiful because they loved each other at least i know my husband loved her then. His ex wife out got really sick he developed stroke. It was really bad but he never left her side he always always there for her. He was always in the hospital with her day and night. I just though he was the bravest and caring man that i have ever know. And yeah, she got well but not all the way i mean she came back but not her love and affection. I don’t know maybe it was the sickness that changed her or she never really loved my husband and felt he was the cause of her problem her sickness and all the bad things that had happened to her since they meant. She gave him hell, she got mad at him over every little thing she stopped him form seeing all his friend and female friends and even made him fire me. She was obsessed with things like he was cheating on her and his friends are telling him to leave her. She was diagnosed and was free form psychological break down. I don’t know she just developed hatred for my now husband. She constantly threatened to take everything form him his house, constructing firm and even with that he still loved her. He would complain to me all day about what’s happening telling me how he wants to fix thing between him and her even when it became really bad that they no longer shared the same bed she would not let him touch her. I thought it was my chance with him but i was fooling myself because yeah i told him how i felt for him and i thrown myself at him but it did not work he still wanted to be with his wife. He live like that with her for one year. I loved him and he was suffering i wanted to set him free from her so i contacted a powerful spell caster Obudun Magonata to help me make him love me. He asked me to get some materials which was hard for me to find because i would have had to break many laws and got my self in trouble so i just wired the expense to him and after four days my wise came true he loved me just as he love his ex wife i was the apple of the eye just like how he was the apple of my eye but Obudun Magonata told me that his ex wife would let let us be and she will frustrate our love until we give up and just as he told me it happened he wanted 70% of everything my husband had and the court was already in her favor plus she was from a very powerful family. That brought another problem he was ready to loss all he had for us but still he did not want to loss them but thanks to Obudun Magonata He helped use with another spell that made her drop the case and just signed the papers to let use be together. I t was mind blowing what Obudun Magonata did for us it not just as you read now it was so supernatural. Even before i had my first child he told me that we will last forever till death because of the two kids i will bear for him. Its also coming to pass i have a 2 years old son and i am pregnant for the second child now.Only those like me who Obudun Magonata have helped knows how powerful he is. Only him can solve the unsolved if you need his help use this email SPIRITSOFOBUDUNMAGONATA@YAHOO.(COM) rewrite this email in the standard email format to use.

  19. If you have been reading comment online about this spell caster Obudun Magonata it will be easy for me to tell you this that he couldn’t get any more really that he is already. I have come to a conclusion that the gift he possess and his good heart are the strongest most powerful thing i have ever known. He is the most straight forward person and most understanding anyone can ever meet. He did not even ask for my money he just asked me to get materials that will be needed for the spell and that was it. To start, i am an alcoholic and also have a strong addiction for gambling. I lost almost a 100 grand on internet gambling and still did not stop at the same time i was drinking heavily i got suspended form work for a duration of four years because of my drinking problem & my home, i destroyed it with by myself. I was unfaithful to my wife several times and she knew what was happening, i kept yelling over nothing on my girls. My addiction to gambling and drinking was complimentary i was losing a lot of money and still playing and was drinking a lot to calm my nerves. The addiction made me numb my feelings was gone. My wife , my girls saw me as a monster. I remember this day, my wife told me it as my second girl’s birthday the other week and my responds was “grown *** girls don’t celebrate their birthday and if she wanted to she can as well go get a job so she can use want she earn to celebrate every day of her life”. I still can’t believe i said that to my wife and on top of that her sister was right there. My wife was hurt it was written all over her face her face and she told me ” I don’t even know who you are any more where is the man that use to be the human shield of this family ? that man would never had said anything to hurt me or his kids you don’t even care that you are scaring h*** out of this girls? one more of this and i am out” there i told her i don’t need them they were weighing me down that there were burden on me. Those words still hunts me till this day i can believe i really said all those words. My wife left me and off course with the kids and foolish drunk me happily signed the divorce papers. Honestly i don’t know maybe it because i was drunk most of the the day, i felt go i get gambling and kept drinking losing big and winning little waking up with different ladies on my bed every morning. I was like this for two years, and i felt i was on top of the world but my friend made me see i had nothing anymore his wife won’t let him talk to me or hang out with me i gradually felt empty. At a point i saw i needed to get clean and actually committed to my self to AA off course it was hard to admit but with my friends help i got committed. I was six months clean from alcohol and gambling when i discovered my wife was see another man and they were going to get married. I was still in love with her. She was mad when she saw me, she wanted nothing to do with me, my girls hated me because of me they could not even look at me. I tried to get close and got a restraining order. I needed to be my family again i know i ruined it by myself i just wanted to make it up to them i failed then and i wanted to redeem myself to show them the man that use to be the human shield of his family is back i found him again. Obudun Magonata was the man that help me made it happen. It was the course of find a away to reach my wife i found this great spell caster. I did not have the privilege of meeting but like he told other he had helped, some of them met him in real time. He told me after the spell casting my wife , my child will love me like we never fell apart they would know i messed up but they will not care about it any more. I got the materials that was required of me by i got i mean i asked him to help me sending over to him the total cost because most of the materials where only found in the heart of Libya. Just after the spell process was concluded a package was sent to me i can’t disclose its content but it rest easy it could not even harm a fly. He told me what to do with it and all he said will happen happened. I had my family back my wife , my child and i are once again that happy family i lost. I was still on suspension he told he i will get a call to come back to work and i did just after all he did for me. This spell caster he has something that saves lives. Am glad i met him all he promised me he did i wish i could me more grateful. I will leave his email contact like those other person that did in there comment or article which ever this is spiritsofobudunmagonata ‘ at ‘ ‘ yahoo ‘ ‘ dot ‘ ‘ com ‘…

  20. Unbelieveable testimony! This is the most wonderful thing i have ever experience and i need to share this great testimony.. I visited a forum here on the internet, And i saw a marvellous testimonies of this powerful and great man called Dr Mutuma on the forum..I never believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about it before.. No body would have been able to convince me about miracles, not until Dr Mutuma did a marvellous work for me and restored my marriage of 6 years back to me and brought my spouse back to me within 24 hours just as i read on the internet..i was truly flabbergasted and shocked when my husband kneel down begging for forgiveness and told me to accept him back.. I am really short of words and joy, and i don’t know how much to convey my appreciation to you Dr Mutuma you are a God sent to me and my entire family.. And now i am a joyful woman once again.. You can contact him on any kind of problems you are going through on his email.. drmutumahouseofsolution121@gmail. com “A man of honour and integrity”

  21. Hey, Sane man,

    I very much hear where you are coming from, and I’m honestly very sorry that the experiences of life have left you so disappointed. So many of us have been there… And the reality is you’re incredibly correct: such a woman is VERY difficult to find. However, I don’t believe that this should dissuade us in the pursuit. I believe that the article was written not with the intention of raising a standard to obtain, but with the purpose of illuminating a possibility. A true and existent possibility, however rare–because thanks to the slew of women you’ve referred to yourself (who claim to be “good”), many men may not even know how to envision such a woman and such a dynamic.

    And I use the word “dynamic” here because, as many have previously stated in this thread, relationships depend greatly on both parties in different ways. Here’s what I mean in this context. You probably won’t find exactly such a woman as this article describes as you look around. But I’m sure you can find a woman with the sort of heart that, in a loving relationship with you, can be such a woman–as you are that man to her. This is not to say that you’ll be changing her, *making* her be anything, etc. But what I am saying is that a woman like the one described here doesn’t just pop into existence–she is nurtured and grown like a delicate flower into beautiful blossom. And that takes work! And seriously selfless love and commitment on the part of her man, too.

    Which leads to my last point, regarding expectation. The funny thing is that while we want our women to be all of these great things (as they want us to be great men), projecting these expectations into our relationships is absolutely cancerous to their growth. Which is why I mostly agree with your last point: if we focus our needs and expectations onto our partners, we will stifle ourselves into unhappiness. We co-depend and we fall helplessly short! However, if we selflessly love our partner anyway, without applying the pressure of our expectations, we free her to love us just as selflessly–and viola~! All that we would have expected anyway grows to be fulfilled in mutual selfless love. It’s a tricky balance, and somewhat paradoxical (many would even say “backwards”), but it’s so central.

    I think you have a firm grasp of the first, disappointing part of the dynamic I’ve tried to describe (I hope it makes sense!). To the second–don’t give up! Continue to believe that there are such beautiful people in the world and strive to selflessly devote yourself to a woman for whom you can be a great man in her life. By focusing your devotion and expectation on what YOU will strive to be for HER instead of the other way around, you will free her, fulfill her, and inspire her to be and want to be the same for you in return. And you’ll grow wonderfully together–through all of the struggles along the way. (And you’ll be just,/b> the sort of man whom she, too, probably believes doesn’t really exist, hehe.)

    One last, quick point. If you’re focusing not on how you partner fulfills you, but rather on how you fulfill your partner, then I think it’s also very important to have a focused expectation for yourself on what that looks like, such a selfless love, to keep you on the path. And also finding healthy ways to talk about that and share that with her along the way. You’ll grow closer and more aligned on your journey this way, too. For me, it has happened as others have suggested: through spending time together in prayer with one another, sharing desires and joys and vulnerabilities, and a focus on love in God and His love for us–a beautiful depiction of this very dynamic at work. But if Christianity isn’t where you find yourself, still: finding other ways to share and commune on this idea, of your focus to selflessly fulfill each other, is so key.

    Very best to you, Sane man. Keep that sane head, and a level, loving heart. A truly good woman (who probably doesn’t boast of her own goodness) will feel every bit of that, and want to love you more.

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