10 Ways A Good Woman Will Make You A Better Man

As men, we’ve all been there. The relationshits where the girl you’re dating brings more drama than happiness to your life. Where her immaturity and jealousy stresses you out. Where you question if being a relationship is even something you want.

I do believe, though, that a good woman will bring many positives to your life.

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A good woman will support you in all of your ventures. She will be your cheerleader and encourage you to chase after your goals and dreams.

A good woman will make you excited to come home at night. She will be your encouragement after bad days and the first one to congratulate you after good days.

Either way, she will be your reward after all days.

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A good woman will make you want to be the best version of yourself, just by being present in your life. You will always want to be more and do more, both for her and for yourself.

A good woman will make you excited for each day to begin. Knowing you have the love of the one you love will give you a new outlook on life.

A good woman will never judge you. She will accept you as you are, giving you more confidence in yourself.

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A good woman will teach you about life. The female perspective on the world is completely different than a man’s, and seeing things in different lights often give you a clearer view.

A good woman will be honest with you, whether you like it or not. While being supportive and encouraging, she’ll also tell you if there’s something you need to change and improve, and who doesn’t want to improve?

A good woman will open your mind to new things. Odds are you’ve got different interests – so embarking on hers with her will bring new experiences into your life that you may not have tried without her.

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A good woman will help you see yourself how she sees you, in your best light. She will help you recognize the great things about yourself that she sees, and you may not.

A good woman will keep you grounded. Let’s be honest – there has been more than one occasion when you’ve gone to a female friend for advice on any given topic. To have a good woman be the voice of reason in your daily life, will keep you on the right track.

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When you have the love of a good woman supporting you, there will be nothing you can’t accomplish.

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94 thoughts on “10 Ways A Good Woman Will Make You A Better Man

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  3. Really enjoyed this article!
    I believe that this article goes both ways, for both sexes. I am currently engaged to my best friend and the love of my life. I will admit two years ago, before I knew what love really was and felt like; I would have dismissed this article all together. However now I feel like this is a very true and well written piece for any relationship, I can support this as follows:
    ‘A good woman will support you in all of your ventures. She will be your cheerleader and encourage you to chase after your goals and dreams.’
    -Very true, my fiancé is the most supportive and encouraging person I have ever met. He encourages me to work hard and reach the goals and an we have set forth for each other.
    ‘A good woman will make you excited to come home at night. She will be your encouragement after bad days and the first one to congratulate you after good days. – Either way, she will be your reward after all days.’
    -I have never been more excited to walk through the door and see one person as I am nearly every day (everyone has bad days, so let’s be realistic here). I have found a new found joy in his smile and his hugs when I arrive home. Also, there is no other person I would rather share and feel rewarded with than him. If something good happens in life I am not only grateful to have him, but also the blesses we receive together.
    ‘A good woman will make you want to be the best version of yourself, just by being present in your life. You will always want to be more and do more, both for her and for yourself.’
    -OK.. OK.. I get it.. you can’t love someone else until you love yourself.. you have to be the best you can be and not rely on anyone else. .. all the clichés in the world wouldn’t make me believe that this isn’t true. I am a better person having met my fiancé and spending my life with him. I want to be the best person I can be for him and for our future family, not that I didn’t want to be the best I could be before him, but there is a new found desire in seeing the pride and love in his eyes when I have accomplished something, be it for myself or for us.
    ‘A good woman will make you excited for each day to begin. Knowing you have the love of the one you love will give you a new outlook on life.’
    -NEVER READ ANYTHING MORE TRUE. Every day is beautiful as it was before I met him, but now.. the sun shines a little bright, the flowers smell a little better, and the bad days just aren’t as bad. Knowing that the person that loves you and that you love more than life is there to help you through anything provides a very keen outlook on life, such a beautiful one!
    ‘A good woman will never judge you. She will accept you as you are, giving you more confidence in yourself.’
    -We are all human and judgment is in our nature. Though I wholeheartedly believe when my fiancé ‘judges’ me, he has my best interest and growth in mind. I believe that he has good intentions when providing feedback and only wants to help me be better or point out a difference of opinion. (God love him, because this is never easy, I am a rather stubborn person).
    A good woman will teach you about life. The female perspective on the world is completely different than a man’s, and seeing things in different lights often give you a clearer view.’
    -I have never learned more in life, I have never been so open to learning and exploring new things, and partaking in things that I never thought I would do. You can learn this is ANY relationship you are in, not just one with a significant other. Everyone has their own story and has been through there own stuff, therefore you should never stop learning from those around you.
    ‘A good woman will be honest with you, whether you like it or not. While being supportive and encouraging, she’ll also tell you if there’s something you need to change and improve, and who doesn’t want to improve?’
    -Oh the hard part, honesty. This is one thing that I was not used to in past relationships but have grown to love and appreciate now. It has been brought to my attention that I in fact am not perfect and have room to grow, who would have known? In the past my partners did not have the respect enough to tell me of these areas I need to improve. Not only do I have that now I also have a support system to help adapt to the changes that need to be address in me and my ability to love others.
    ‘A good woman will open your mind to new things. Odds are you’ve got different interests – so embarking on hers with her will bring new experiences into your life that you may not have tried without her.’
    -Stuck in there ways? Who wants to do the same things for the rest of their life and never try anything new? I love the adventure and spontaneity that my partner has helped me realize I have within me! It a whole need and awesome side of me, that I didn’t even know existed!
    ‘A good woman will help you see yourself how she sees you, in your best light. She will help you recognize the great things about yourself that she sees, and you may not.’
    -I have bad days, and worse days. The best thing in the world is being reminded that the bad and awful times in life aren’t who you are and don’t have to define you. Of course anyone can see this on their own, however it is so much easier when you have someone to help remind you of the things you are and the things you aren’t. It always amazes me the things that others see in you, that you may never see in yourself, especially those that love you.
    ‘A good woman will keep you grounded. Let’s be honest – there has been more than one occasion when you’ve gone to a female friend for advice on any given topic. To have a good woman be the voice of reason in your daily life, will keep you on the right track.’

    -This isn’t just a good woman, this is a good person in general, but for me my rock is my best friend, my fiancé, my hero, my love, my heart, and my future. He reminds me when I get a little out of control that we all put our pants on the same way and that we all walk the same earth. I also know without a doubt that he provides reason when there is doubt in my mind.

    I feel as if articles like this are based on perspective. I by no means would consider myself anything less than a strong women, I have had my share of bad, abusive relationships and a couple good ones throughout as well. Also, like I mentioned before I very well would have dismissed this article two years ago, but then I wasn’t involved in a mature loving relationship. We pride ourselves and our relationship on growth, not only as individuals but also together. There isn’t an obstacle we don’t attack together. I appreciate my ‘good’ man, and know that he appreciates his ‘good’ women as well.

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  5. I am going to be nit picky here. The article was indeed good my issue is with the pictures you choose to accompany it. Due to their past choices Angelina and Brad belong NOWHERE near anything you write. Though they take stunning pictures I do not think there is an ounce of chivalry, class or honor in either of their bodies.

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  11. Hey, Sane man,

    I very much hear where you are coming from, and I’m honestly very sorry that the experiences of life have left you so disappointed. So many of us have been there… And the reality is you’re incredibly correct: such a woman is VERY difficult to find. However, I don’t believe that this should dissuade us in the pursuit. I believe that the article was written not with the intention of raising a standard to obtain, but with the purpose of illuminating a possibility. A true and existent possibility, however rare–because thanks to the slew of women you’ve referred to yourself (who claim to be “good”), many men may not even know how to envision such a woman and such a dynamic.

    And I use the word “dynamic” here because, as many have previously stated in this thread, relationships depend greatly on both parties in different ways. Here’s what I mean in this context. You probably won’t find exactly such a woman as this article describes as you look around. But I’m sure you can find a woman with the sort of heart that, in a loving relationship with you, can be such a woman–as you are that man to her. This is not to say that you’ll be changing her, *making* her be anything, etc. But what I am saying is that a woman like the one described here doesn’t just pop into existence–she is nurtured and grown like a delicate flower into beautiful blossom. And that takes work! And seriously selfless love and commitment on the part of her man, too.

    Which leads to my last point, regarding expectation. The funny thing is that while we want our women to be all of these great things (as they want us to be great men), projecting these expectations into our relationships is absolutely cancerous to their growth. Which is why I mostly agree with your last point: if we focus our needs and expectations onto our partners, we will stifle ourselves into unhappiness. We co-depend and we fall helplessly short! However, if we selflessly love our partner anyway, without applying the pressure of our expectations, we free her to love us just as selflessly–and viola~! All that we would have expected anyway grows to be fulfilled in mutual selfless love. It’s a tricky balance, and somewhat paradoxical (many would even say “backwards”), but it’s so central.

    I think you have a firm grasp of the first, disappointing part of the dynamic I’ve tried to describe (I hope it makes sense!). To the second–don’t give up! Continue to believe that there are such beautiful people in the world and strive to selflessly devote yourself to a woman for whom you can be a great man in her life. By focusing your devotion and expectation on what YOU will strive to be for HER instead of the other way around, you will free her, fulfill her, and inspire her to be and want to be the same for you in return. And you’ll grow wonderfully together–through all of the struggles along the way. (And you’ll be just,/b> the sort of man whom she, too, probably believes doesn’t really exist, hehe.)

    One last, quick point. If you’re focusing not on how you partner fulfills you, but rather on how you fulfill your partner, then I think it’s also very important to have a focused expectation for yourself on what that looks like, such a selfless love, to keep you on the path. And also finding healthy ways to talk about that and share that with her along the way. You’ll grow closer and more aligned on your journey this way, too. For me, it has happened as others have suggested: through spending time together in prayer with one another, sharing desires and joys and vulnerabilities, and a focus on love in God and His love for us–a beautiful depiction of this very dynamic at work. But if Christianity isn’t where you find yourself, still: finding other ways to share and commune on this idea, of your focus to selflessly fulfill each other, is so key.

    Very best to you, Sane man. Keep that sane head, and a level, loving heart. A truly good woman (who probably doesn’t boast of her own goodness) will feel every bit of that, and want to love you more.

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